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10 PRACTICAL GUIDELINES FOR POSITIVE SPEECH

1. Do not express damaging or derogatory information about someone that might cause him physical, psychological or financial harm, even if it is true and deserved.
2. Promote people’s well being. When in doubt, don’t speak out.
3. Humor is great, but make sure jokes aren’t at someone else’s expense.

4. Be kind to yourself. Speaking badly even about yourself is unethical.
5. Don’t listen to gossip. If you can’t change the direction of the conversation, it is advisable to leave.
6. If you inadvertently hear damaging information, you should believe that it is NOT true.
7. Always give others the benefit of the doubt and focus on the positive.
8. Words once spoken can’t be erased. Think before you speak, especially if you are angry, hurt or jealous.
9. Use kind and supportive words with your children and spouse whenever possible. Harsh words can cause irreparable harm as can speaking derogatorily to others about the ones you love most.
10. It is not only permitted, but required, to warn a person about potential harm – for example, that a potential business partner has a repeated record of embezzlement.

"NO GOSSIP PLEASE"
Don’t Be Shy!!!
Just Tell Them!
“NG PLEASE”
NG Please!!

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10 PRACTICAL GUIDELINES FOR POSITIVE SPEECH

1. Do not express damaging or derogatory information about someone that might cause him physical, psychological or financial harm, even if it is true and deserved.
2. Promote people’s well being. When in doubt, don’t speak out.
3. Humor is great, but make sure jokes aren’t at someone else’s expense.

4. Be kind to yourself. Speaking badly even about yourself is unethical.
5. Don’t listen to gossip. If you can’t change the direction of the conversation, it is advisable to leave.
6. If you inadvertently hear damaging information, you should believe that it is NOT true.
7. Always give others the benefit of the doubt and focus on the positive.
8. Words once spoken can’t be erased. Think before you speak, especially if you are angry, hurt or jealous.
9. Use kind and supportive words with your children and spouse whenever possible. Harsh words can cause irreparable harm as can speaking derogatorily to others about the ones you love most.
10. It is not only permitted, but required, to warn a person about potential harm – for example, that a potential business partner has a repeated record of embezzlement.

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Shmirat Halshon 2 hours daily Mishmeret

#1-Please Choose The 2 Hour Slot (While Awake) During Which You Will Be Extra Cautious To Avoid Even A Trace Of Forbidden Speech- Speaking, Listening, Reading & Writing and Seeing in Honor of a loved one.

#2-Please Enter the name of whom you are guarding your speech, from what time will your guard 2 hours take place and please pick a chapter or more of Tehillim . Please note that you can certainly speak During your 2 hours guard but no gossip.

Please start Your guard by saying:

Behold I take it upon my self, BLI-NEDER To Guard My Speech When Talking,Listening,Hearing,Writing Or Viewing

In honor / Z Chus of

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Who Heals? On the one hand, G‑d says in His Torah, “I am G‑d, your healer.” On the other hand, the same Torah says that if you’re hurting, you should go to a doctor, “and he shall surely heal.” So…

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We should be quick to acknowledge that we misunderstood our spouses words! http://www.ngplease.com  

If somebody wrongs you! don't take revenge, if somebody wrongs a friend! Speak Up! http://www.ngplease.com

If one were truly aware of his own faults, he would not speak badly of others. http://www.ngplease.com

There can be many reasons why a person chose to be silent!      

"It is a great mitzva" to leave the company of gossipers! http://www.ngplease.com

The key here is to see halachah as a reality!  

It is the way of fools to seek out the faults and mistakes of others. http://www.ngplease.con

Ethel Simon Daughter, Sherry Say: Apples reminds us of the original sin and one of follows the teaching of the Torah will AVOID Lashon Hora! http://www.ngplease.com    

Listening to Lashon Hora and accepting it as fact is worse than speaking lashon Hora. http://www.ngplease.com

What more need be said Concerning this most severe of SINS?

When we speak Lashon Hora, each and every word is recorded by Heavenly angel.

Shabbos candles take precedence over Kiddush wine, for their light fosters peace and harmony in ones life. http://www.ngplease.com

When business matters are concerned, people are carful to remove any possible impediment (obstacle) to success. Should we be any less vigilant (watchful and alert) in our spiritual pursuits? http://www.ngplease.com

If lashon hora and sinat chinam (hate with out reason) could destroy the bait Hamikdosh/ Holy Temple, then certainly they can prevent its rebuilding. *Remember that Heavenly judgment is initiated by lashon hora on this world,. *While anger and insensitivity…

When A Jew studies Torah, he perfects his entire being --but this can be forfeited through speaking loshon hora. http://www.ngplease.com

Surely there is infinite rewards for man  who, through his own free choice, refrains from speaking the forbidden. http://www.ngplease.com

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When Hashem Visits punishment upon an individual, He does it for the person's benefit. http://www.ngplease.com

If a word is worth one coin, silence is worth two. http://www.ngplease.com

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The Evil Inclination employs contrasting approaches to entice people to sin. http://www.ngplease.com

One who speaks lashon hora destroys three people: the subject of his evil words, his listener and himself. http://www.ngplease.com

The way to ensure ourselves of eternal rewards for all our good deeds is by avoiding lashon hora. http://www.ngplease.com  

The gossiper looks over his shoulder to make sure that his target is not listening. But why isn;t he worried that Hashem is listening?! http://www.ngplease.com

Man is superior to other creatures only if he uses his power of speech in a constructive manner. http://www.ngplease.com

Middah k'neged middah (measure for measure) is the rule of Heaven in all instances. http://www.ngplease.com

Those who refrain from speaking ill of others can rest assured that their good deeds carry great weight in Heaven. http://www.ngplease.com

Hashem acts towards us in the way that we act toward others. http://www.ngplease.com

If you Stumbled this morning and spoke the forbidden!!! Then strengthen yourself once more, and B"H you will succeed in the afternoon. http://www.ngplease.com

It is the Satan's/Devil desire that we speak loshon hora so that our prayers will be rejected above. http://www.ngplease.com

For each moment that a person refrains from speaking the forbidden, he merits a hidden light that no angle can fathom. http://www.ngplease.com

The quality of shmirat haloshon - guarding your tong! is within everyone's reach! 100% guarantied. http://www.ngplease.com

If someone bears you ill will, greet him with peace, for this will awaken a [positive feeling within him. http://www.ngplease.com

It is the power of speech which defines man's essence and distinguishes him from other creatures. http://www.ngplease.com

The longer one persists in guarding his tongue son! the easier it becomes. And that's A Promise. http://www.ngplease.com

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Doing a mitzvah in this world causes a spiritual light to rest upon one's soul: it is from this light that the soul draws eternal vitality.

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