FMT – Parashas Vayera 5781 – Look Ahead

The Verse [Bereishis 19:17] states: “When they had brought them outside, one said, “Flee for your life! Do not look behind you, nor stop anywhere in the Plain; flee to the hills, lest you be swept away.” When the angels came and to miraculously save Lot and his wife and his daughters from the destruction of Sodom, they gave Lot only one instruction: “Don’t look back!” He was told to head for the hills and run for his life and he would be saved, if he did not turn around to look at the destruction that was befalling his former neighbors. Rashi explains the reason for this command was that Lot himself was not much better than the people of Sodom. In truth, he should have been punished with the rest of the Sodomites and should have been part of the destruction. He was only being saved in the merit of his uncle Avraham; therefore, he did not deserve to look back and watch the fate that was befalling those who were not much worse spiritually speaking than he was. The Zohar offers another reason why Lot was cautioned not to look back. As when one sees the light and decides to repent, the Yetzer Hara’s technic to prevent him to doing Teshuva, and to better his behavior is by burdening him by his past. As when one looks back at his past and sees how he has sullied himself and the countless number of times he sinned gravely, he is overcome with feelings of despair and will likely say: How can I ever approach the Master of the World? How can I ever consider myself to be a righteous person? My past is just too sordid to ever become close to the Hashem. These feelings of hopelessness have the powerful effect to dissolve the resolution of changing for the best, as the person sees the outcome possible is total failure as logically “How could Hashem ever want a person like me? I have wallowed myself in too much mud.” This logic is the Yetzer Hara and it is wrong to abide by it. The Zohar states: “A little light pushes away lots of darkness.” To do Teshuva one most focus on the present. One has to have the attitude “Listen, my past is my past. True I may have sullied myself with the worst sins, but NOW I am going to change.” There is no point, in fact, it is counter- productive to keep on thinking how dark one was in the past. The way to move forward is not to focus on what was, but on what is now. This is the message the angels gave Lot. If you want to break away from your past and to not be recognized as a Sodomite, move forward with your life, don’t dwell mentally on the fact that you were part and parcel of that evil society, lest you despair of being able to turn over a new leaf in your life. In the evening prayers, we say the expression “And remove Satan from before us and from behind us.” This is because many times this is the approach of Satan: It is hopeless, you are beyond hope! Despite your undertakings your future will not be brighter. It is a lie! At the end of the tunnel Hashem is waiting to shower us with the celestial light and blessings. Hereafter is a story that embodies that message: In the second part of the 18th century, the fledgling Chassidic movement faced stiff hostility, fueled by a bona fide suspicion that perhaps its followers weren’t G-d fearing people, coupled with a bevy of false reports crafted by individuals seeking to hurt the movement. Rabbi Shneur Zalman of Liadi, founder of Chabad, made it his mission to sway public opinion by exposing the detractors to the truth about Chassidism and its adherents. In synagogues packed with spectators, in cities such as Minsk and Smilovitz, he held grand debates with his opponents, proving the claims of Chassidism’s boorishness untrue. Time and again, his words found their mark. Great scholars, persuaded by the breadth of his genius, became ardent followers. Our story begins in the winter of 1786. Rabbi Shneur Zalman was on his way to Sventiany (Shventzian), Lithuania, whose Jewish population were predominantly opposed to Chassidism. Word of his arrival traveled quickly through the town, spreading to the hundreds of Chassidim who lived nearby. On Shabbos Noach, Sventiany swelled with Chassidic guests. For two weeks Rabbi Shneur Zalman hardly left the lectern. His discourses ranged in topic from Gemara and Halacha to the esoteric realms of Kabbalah and Chassidus. Many of the scholars in attendance had traveled to Sventiany specifically to attend these lectures. As hoped for, Rabbi Shneur Zalman’s visit created an indelible impression, and before long, many of Sventiany’s illustrious young men adopted Chassidic customs. At the age of 93, Reb Shlomo Rafaels was one of Sventiany’s oldest residents. He was well known and admired both as a scholar and a wealthy businessman, retired from his massive and very successful spirit manufacturing and distribution operation. All ten of his children had married into well-known, respected families. People spoke of him epitomizing the word “success.” Thirty years prior, Reb Shlomo placed himself at the frontlines of the war against Chassidism, driven by sincere but misguided convictions that Chassidism was just another heretical incarnation of the Sabbatean movement. His deep pockets provided a majority of the funding necessary for the opposition’s pushback, and in 1757 he traveled to Vilna to witness a group of prominent rabbis excommunicate the Baal Shem Tov. During this period of disquiet, not a single Chassid dared to step foot inside Sventiany. Reb Shlomo continued his battle for seven years, before suddenly retracting his funding and ceasing all further involvement. An envoy of rabbis visited him to learn the reason for his withdrawal, but he would say nothing. When asked whether he believed the Chassidim to be G-d fearing Jews, Reb Shlomo affirmed there was no doubt in his mind they were. In 1786, however, during Rabbi Shneur Zalman’s visit, the reason finally surfaced. It was before Mincha on Shabbos, just as Rabbi Shneur Zalman finished speaking before a large crowd. Reb Shlomo stood up and called for silence. Everyone immediately complied. “Esteemed gentlemen,” he began. “Around 30 years ago, I was present among a committee of Rabbis who excommunicated the Baal Shem Tov. My intentions were earnest. “On my 70th birthday, as I learned the tractate of Menachot, my eyes closed of their own accord. A man appeared in my dream. “‘I am the Baal Shem Tov,’ he declared. ‘You and your associates had me and my students ostracized, but you failed to first enquire and investigate as Jewish law requires. Recant your position!’ “I awoke distraught, his words ringing in my ears. He was right. When we issued our indictment, we had not properly investigated. The dream compelled me to conduct my own research, and I followed the Chassidim and their ways closely. The error of my ways was immediately seen — the Chassidim are G-d fearing people, observing the Torah most scrupulously. Thus, I withdrew from the opposition. “Since then, over the course of 20 years, I still follow them, and the more I do, the further I realize how profoundly erroneous are the controversy and backlash surrounding them.” The crowd stood in rapt silence as Reb Shlomo straightened up and faced Rabbi Shneur Zalman. “I’m 93 years old, and standing here today I wholeheartedly say, ‘Blessed are You… who has granted us life, sustained us and enabled us to reach this occasion to meet face to face with a true leader of Israel, a true scholar, who merited to draw thousands of Jews closer to their Father in Heaven and elevate Torah to its fullest extent.’” Reb Shlomo’s emotional proclamation set Sventiany and the surrounding towns abuzz. Once Shabbos ended, hundreds proceeded to visit Rabbi Shneur Zalman, who received them till the early hours of the morning. Reb Shlomo, once so opposed, can now be credited for spurring Chassidus into wider public acceptance.

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